nothing changed. * Let me clarify - I find them pleasing to the eye, and every so often quite tempting, but I don't find myself actually attracted to them. The reality was that my shitty, depressed, hateful personality was kind of a turn-off. If they had gotten some honest feedback and then made some changes, they might have looked exponentially more attractive to men. ... It’s the … I dunno what to do for title but 21M am sad details within, My career has just been ruined due to lockdown, could someone please offer empathy/encouragements/advice on dealing with feelings, but not solutions for the actual situation please, It's so sad I'm only 20 and all I think is about death. Guys don’t like rejection and if they ask a girl out and she says no, it often takes months before he’ll try again! I agree with some of the principles but there’s a lot of assumptions and generalisations made - makes it hard to fully support him. if you seem like you are busy, guy won’t want to approach you. Reminder: After posting a submission, check the new section. ... That's great and you absolutely have to make … [–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children), [–]ORPHH 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children). Almost puke at the thought of being with a woman. In one word, confidence. Dear Ugly, Fat Feminists:I'm sorry men don't find you attractive. Guys want to approach you, and they will if they feel that you’ve given them permission to approach. That said, it is possible that you are the hawt girl, and not know it. and that's why i'm alone.. [–]Goodbye_nagasaki 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children). You never know. I don’t believe this is the case - but my friends seem to think that guys will not approach me because they are scared of rejection. Men don't want to go in for a kiss and come out looking like they just joined the circus. Men don’t just go around and tell every woman what a great lover she is. I love when people talk to me at the gym or smile and greet me when I'm out walking. It used to frustrate me when I was younger, but then I just decided to embrace it. Tldw (it’s only like five mins, not bad at all you should): men don’t want to be creepy. For example, a dance class or a recreational sports team. So, the very first thing you need to do is: Don’t Look Sick, and Don’t Smell Sick. 10. “Calling me after sending me a rapid fire of texts that I don’t answer. No. [–]PaxDramaticus 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (2 children). I can't up upvote enough. * Let me clarify - I find them pleasing to the eye, and every so often quite tempting, but I don't find myself actually attracted to them. But yeah, approaching someone where they can't really escape because they're doing something and don't really have any alternatives sucks because making an escuse means they have to avoid something like a bus to get to work or their gym where they pay a membership fee and it's really hard to get out of that. Spending time with someone who is always a sad sock becomes draining over time, and eventually they pull away so that they can spend time with other, more positive individuals. In fact, most men won’t see how they subconsciously prefer certain female body types. In my experience, women have a fairly narrow view of what they consider beautiful in other women. Because strong women intimidate boys, and excite men, and that’s what I’m after. We don’t know who they are, or whether they are in any way a representative sample of single men… I mean, firstly because the whole concept of the friendzone is bunk to begin with, but also because I have definitely chosen not to get involved with women I found attractive but for whom there was some other complication I didn't want to deal with. If you act like you have a boyfriend, no guy will want to approach you because they don’t think they’ll have any luck. If you would like to get off the ban list you can message the mods. Her weight problems, on the other hand, may also impact her fertility; For this reason, most guys don’t usually go for women who have a larger waist-to-hips ratio. You sound like my ex, so I'm gonna give you some cold advice. I accepted one friend request of an unknown girl and we had a conversation. I am attracted to white and Asian guys but I feel like white guys don't find me attractive. 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